Hello everyone, have you every thought of being jealous? About your girlfriend or boyfriend talking to a girl or guy?
If yes continue reading. What I am trying to accomplish is to explain the cause of you being jealous.
For you guys out there don’t get jealous of your girlfriend for talking to a guy. If you truly trust her and you have a close relationship then don’t assume something because sometimes it can just be her friend that she's talking to. Sometimes just thinking that your girlfriend likes this guy, which sometimes that can be that case or not, can cause a problem so never assume something is before you ask. If you are really stumped on the answer of your girlfriend liking someone question her to see what she says and ask for the honest truth, so you know what’s going on.
For you ladies, if your boyfriend talks to a girl more than he does with you don’t automatically throw up red flags and don’t get out of control and think he is cheating on you. Just ask him who she is instead of causing a big problem out of it because sometimes the thoughts makes matter worse. For a guy, and sometimes for you ladies, he may be shy to talk to you around your friends. But don’t worry he will get used to being around you and soon come around and have that extra push to talk to you more.
Always remember not to assume everything, but to talk to your girlfriend or boyfriend and find out where they stand and who she or he likes to talk to and go from there. Once you have a fully close relationship you will know that once you have trust,communication, respect, and loyalty all these factors play a big role in a relationship and sometimes if you lack these things that could be the reason why your relationship didn't last long.
Relationships can last long but all it depends on how much time you put in a relationship to make that happen and just to have more of a heart to do those things and good things will happen for you. Never rush into anything and take your time, because all that other stuff out there in the world will always be there, but your life can only last for so long until you are gone from the earth.
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haha man malcom nice i bet you know this feeling as well me, nice blog post man.
ReplyDeleteHey Malcom, I agree 100% with the things you explain on your blog post a jealous between boy and girl. Sometime being jealous, it is not that you don't trust each other; it is just when you believe on your mind that you find the right guy or girl you wanted to be and lost your relationship longer. We all make our decision without thinking positive way or take time to think about it. I will say the solution for jealousy is talk to each other or take time to think about it. Keep your hard work.
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